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Mature singles have plenty of great people to choose from; but of course, Meet singles today have to know where to look. You already know that bars are a bad place if you want to find someone who is serious about finding a life partner anyway, they're usually full of twenty-somethings who'd consider you an antique.

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Whatever your passion, or whatever your requirements, there is a site that caters to your preferences. Everywhere, people hold events that draw older singles. These give you opportunities to meet people who share your interests.

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Enjoying the ambiance—great crowd, food, drinks, and music—several singles paired up and danced. If the weather is amenable, join an outdoor sporting "Meet singles today." Sailing clubs usually have more male than female members, and after races, they often hold informal dinners where people mix and swap stories.

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I don't understand why more mature men do not take advantage of spas; they're fabulous opportunities for singles.

When you hang out informally with women and get to know them in classes and over group dinners, you have a great chance to become friendly without too much pressure. From that experience, you would make an easier transition to dating. If you're looking for someone with a big heart, go to a place where big-hearted people go: Volunteer at a children's hospital, an environmental cleanup, a Habitat for Humanity build, or a political campaign.

Not everyone will be single, of course, but usually, many singles also attend specially announced events. If you don't meet anyone on the first couple times you volunteer, pick a new outlet for your energies and see that one Meet singles today better.

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